Saturday, November 27, 2010

Thanksgiving

We had a terrific Thanksgiving and perhaps a new family tradition is beginning.

I really wanted company for Thanksgiving. Last year Thanksgiving came right after our mother died. Jane and Ralph were here, so we did have a dinner, but it was mixed with exhaustion and emotions.

This year I decided to ask Ashley's family over. Ashley is Hamed''s girlfriend. Her mother, Sherry and father, Steve and 18 year old brother, Drew, joined us for dinner, dessert and games.

We played Trivial Pursuit with the boys against the girls. Dennis may not have a body that functions, but his brain is in perfect order. The stinker new the answer to almost every question. I had to translate for him, but he was good. And he laughed! Oh, how he laughed and bragged and laughed some more.

He also ate lots of food. Most of the dinner was soft, mushy food, and he piled on the gravy and with my feeding him, he gobbled down a fairly good sized plate of food.

About 6 pm he wanted to go to bed, but encouraged everyone to stay as long as they wanted. After I got him set up in bed, Ashley and I looked at each other and both said how surprised we were at how well he did. It was the best I have seen him in a long time.

I know he loves Thanksgiving dinner, and he like the energy that Hamed and Ashley bring when they visit. But it was almost like good old Dennis for a day.

This brought a smile to my face that most likely won't leave for quite some time.

I hope your Thanksgiving was a blessing, too.

Ann and Dennis

7 comments:

Ruth said...

I am so glad, Ann. It sounds like you had a wonderful day - that's what Thanksgiving is all about - family, good food, and lots of laughter.

Anonymous said...

Oh Ann, reading about your beautiful dinner and how it seemed to invigorate Dennis was wonderful. Laughter and positive spirits are contagious. That’s one germ we can all use more often.
Angelika

Anonymous said...

Knowing the answers, sounds so familiar. Reminds me of Thanksgiving a couple of years ago now, the way you described. Nice to hear of a special MSAer and the precious unique nature I miss soo much in Mom this holiday. I think stimulation of an emotional nature kind of wakes up and is more easily usable in the MSA brain somehow. When ability was lost to answer a medical question, a friend saying goodbye brought the ability for her to say goodbye. Just discovered your blog yesterday and thought you lived in the UK for some reason. Can't believe you live in Minneapolis. We have medical supplies and books that could be of use to you.

Ann said...

Thanks. It's been a difficult year. But I know that we have tons of love for each other. And that is wonderful

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