Sleep was easier for both of us last night. The turkey might have helped. More likely, though, is that fact that we had fun with Jane, Ralph, Hamed and Ashley yesterday.
Hamed, Ashley and I shared stories with Jane about Mother's day at the karate tournament. We laughed about how mother complained to Ashley about how long she had been there, and was Hamed ever going to start sparing. Then, on way home, she told me how much fun she had at the tournament.
We talked about Mother switching from a Packer backer, to a Vikings fan. Or rather, that she really didn't care who won the game, as long as someone won.
We talked only about recent memories, and felt better about her dying while she was still happy and healthy.
Today is her funeral. In a few minutes, we will begin the drive to Eau Claire, perhaps for the last time in each of our lives. Then we will begin the process of acceptance.
Until later,
Ann and Dennis
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